ETIQUETTE AND FAQ

Q: Are you real? Are your pictures real?

A: I could reply “yes” to this question all day—or even refer you to the gentleman whose review states that I am “the actual woman in the pictures, and even hotter on camera.” However, the only way you will ever know the truth for certain is if you schedule a Phone with Cam session with me, yourself.

Q: Will you be my real-life dominatrix girlfriend, meet me in person, or have sex with me for money?

No. Absolutely not.

Q: Do you take appointments?

Yes, I welcome your email or chat if you would like to request a session at a specific time. I am on Eastern Standard Time and have a flexible schedule, so I can accommodate most requests.

Q: Are your boobs real?

A: That depends. Does the human mind have direct access to the noumena behind sense-perception? Or, as Kant argues, is our access to reality, including our very temporospatiality, perpetually preformed and mediated by the categories of the understanding?

Q: What happens during a Niteflirt call with You?

A: The answer to this is as individual as the caller. We will get to know one another, make conversation, and eventually, engage sexually, psychologically, intellectually—even spiritually. You can specify particular fetishes or fantasies you’d like us to act out, but the purpose of your call does not have to include sex at all. Try to maintain your grasp on the distinction between fantasy and reality—if you need help, you can click on the “Educational Videos” tab to learn more about what I mean by this. Please do not waste my time and yours requesting “total power exchange,” for example, if you are unwilling or unprepared to submit to My will in any substantive way. Please do not call and offer me a vague one-sentence description of a pornography-based roleplay in the first thirty seconds of our phone call unless you are paying to commission a screenplay. Alternately, if you don’t know what you want, you can say so—in that case, I will do whatever I want with you for the duration of our session. The complete surprise and lack of control is, of course, much of the intrigue in losing power. In every case, don’t worry—we will work out your hard limits and safe words in advance.

Q: What are your favorite fetishes and kinks?

A: While I first was enthralled by feminization scenes when I became interested in BDSM, I can enjoy most fetishes and kinks and love to learn about what you desire. I especially am interested in chastity, financial domination, bondage and discipline, and cuckolding—and I am extremely good at teasing and denying you, if you enjoy edging for hours on end.

Q: What are your current academic interests and areas of research?

A: My academic interests and areas of research are very wide-ranging. While I specialize in Continental European philosophy—and can teach you about thinkers like Gilles Deleuze, Martin Buber, Georg Friedrich Wilhelm Hegel, Immanuel Kant, David Hume, Friedrich Nietzsche, Jacques Derrida, Michel Foucault, Giorgio Agamben, Emmanuel Levinas, and many others—I also have special interests sometimes in Chinese thinkers such as Mencius or Lao-tse, and some knowledge of African philosophers such as Kwasi Wiredu or Kwame Nkrumah. Aristotle is my favorite ancient Greek philosopher, and Plato and Socrates are of course very important. I can teach you about classical philosophy, some Medieval thinkers, Modern Enlightenment-era thought, existentialism, and so-called “postmodernism.” I am more than happy to discuss my current interests in philosophy with you during our calls.