FAQ

Q: Will you be my real-life girlfriend, meet me in person, or have sex with me for money?

I will not meet you in person, I will not be your girlfriend, and I will not have sex with you for money. No. Absolutely not.

Q: Will you hypnotize me? Do you ever do hypnosis or jerk-off instruction?

No. The trope of guided induction and hypnosis implies I need to lull and confuse you in order to control your mind. It also implies that my mental acuity is a game or silly amusement for you, when it is not. “Jerk-off instruction” is frankly, altogether too crude a thing to expect of any self-respecting Domme. If you disagree, I suspect that you don’t know what a Domme actually is, and therefore that you don’t know what you want. How does it feel to be that afraid of women and their power?

Q: Are your boobs real?

A: That depends. Does the human mind have direct access to the noumena behind sense-perception? Or, as Kant argues, is our access to reality, including our very temporospatiality, perpetually preformed and mediated by the categories of the understanding?

Q: What happens during a Niteflirt call with You?

A: The answer to this is as individual as the caller. We will get to know one another, make conversation, and eventually, engage sexually, psychologically, intellectually—even spiritually. You can specify particular fetishes or fantasies you’d like us to act out, but the purpose of your call does not have to include sex at all. Some requests: try to maintain your grasp on the distinction between fantasy and reality. Please do not waste my time and yours requesting “total power exchange,” for example, if you are unwilling or unprepared to submit to My will in any substantive way. Please do not call and offer me a vague one-sentence description of a pornography-based roleplay in the first thirty seconds of our phone call unless you are paying to commission a screenplay. Alternately, if you don’t know what you want, you can say so—in that case, I will do whatever I want with you for the duration of our session. The complete surprise and lack of control is, of course, much of the intrigue in losing power. In every case, don’t worry—we will work out your hard limits and safe words in advance.

Q: What are your current academic interests and areas of research?

You can learn far more than you are willing to know, far more than you want to know—ultimately, far more than you are physically capable of knowing—on the answer to that question, if you will please click here.